Many of my clients talk about having toxic partners and their struggle with them in their relationships. Interestingly, when they finally meet a good guy, something odd happens… they don’t feel any connection with him.
Here are a few tips on how to spice things up with a nice guy:
- Nice guys may take longer to warm up. First, good guys often wait before making a strong romantic gesture to figure out whether they like a woman or not. As you know, toxic guys dive right in with compliments and sensual caresses. Second, shy guys may wait before making a move because they don’t want to mess things up. If you have enough patience, you might find that these nice shy guys change over time and become more sensual and passionate.
- If you think a guy treats you well, go on five dates before ending the dating relationship with him. You might be surprised that you start to develop feelings for him and become more attached. Some women have a fear of wanting commitment and sensual desire in the same relationship. You might be afraid that if you mess things up with a guy, you will lose a good catch. The anxiety of having a secure emotional connection with a man and having a strong sexual relationship as well might kill the mood. My recommendation is to relax and get to know the person slowly. As you have more positive experiences with a nice guy and understand his values and perspective on life, love, and relationships, you might feel more comfortable with him sensually.
- It is OK to caress his face. If you are dating a good guy and you want to turn up the heat, touch his face and kiss him slowly. Sometimes slowing things down and doing something as simple as kissing in a very romantic way is enough to start a sexual vibe between you.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask. Email me at [email protected].
Take care,
Emily