About Emily

Hi, I am Emily Avagliano, founder of Dating to Get Married, an international speaker and best selling author who helps women find the soulmate love they most deeply desire.    

I have a passion for helping people find love. I started this program, Dating to Get Married, to help women learn the science about how to create deep, meaningful relationships in their lives.  My workshops began in Munich, Germany and have since attracted clients from Europe, Australia and USA.

From designing a robot for the Mars Lander at NASA Jet Propulsion Laboratory to running a $2B clean energy product line for a Fortune 500 company, I have spent twenty years transforming science and disruptive technologies into solutions to help people. I used these same skills gained in assessing technology and understanding science to develop my course on how love works.

 have distilled the science of psychology, physiology, neuroscience, genetics, and biochemistry, into an easy to understand, step by step program to transform my clients approach to dating.   I am so thankful I found the answers to how love works and want to share my journey to finding love and creating this exciting program!

By sharing the science of how love works, I help women and men date with confidence knowing they have the skills and knowledge to create an amazing powerful love that lasts a lifetime!

What am I doing wrong?  Why am I still single?  These are the questions I kept asking myself in my late 30’s.  

It wasn’t always this way. In my early twenties I had plenty of dates but focused my time and energy into my career.

Although I had tremendous success in my career, many amazing friendships, and a fun social life, I was clueless in how to find theloving soulmate connectionI yearned for.  

With each year that passed, the quality of my dates diminished.  I knew something was wrong and if I did not change my approach to dating, I would miss out on my chance of finding love and starting a family.

I didn’t just want to get married; I wanted a fantastic connection with my husband that would last a lifetime.

I took a step back and looked for answers in science and psychology. With a professional career in engineering, I applied that scientific mindset to finding out how loved worked.  

As I studied science, I soon discovered that women receive a lot of bad advice that harms their chances of finding love. 

In addition to studying, I also found a fantastic therapist who helped me understand what was holding me back from making that loving connection. I struggled to overcome a sexual assault in my twenties that left me feeling numb.

By healing from my trauma:

  •  I learned about brain chemistry, how the brain stores memories, and how that affects your ability to love.
  • I learned how to change my limiting beliefs and regulate my emotions.
  • I learned how to set boundaries, identify toxic people, and understand the characteristics of men capable of soulmate love.
  • Most importantly, I learned the essential relationship skills necessary to blend two lives.

I changed my behaviors and interactions on dates, and I started to feel more connected to safe, healthy, mature men. Each time was a learning opportunity to get better and better at the essential relationship skills. Until eventually, I met the love of my life, my husband, Aaron!

My family is the biggest blessing in my life. I felt so grateful that I wanted to help others too.

Now I am married to a loving man and have an amazing son. My family is the biggest blessing in my life. I felt so grateful that I wanted to help others too.

I developed a program that helps women and men date with confidence, knowing they have the skills and knowledge to create a fantastic powerful love that lasts a lifetime! My workshops began in Munich, Germany, and have attracted clients from Europe, Australia, and the US.

It has been a fantastic journey spreading the word about how to strengthen love through science. Helping others to grow and make loving connections give me purpose. I want to change the world’s approach to love, making soulmate love possible not just for a lucky few but for every woman who wants to be in a loving, fantastic relationship!

Studying 30 years of research on thousands of couples… there is a clear answer to how to create a soulmate type of love. Everyone deserves this information. I am ready to be your relationship coach.