“I should have found someone by now.” This is something I hear from many of my clients.
Many people live their lives experiencing a deep sense of sadness. They regret not yet having found someone they love who truly loves them back. They believe that with as many people as they have dated, they should have found someone by now. They believe there must be something inherently wrong with them that makes them incapable and unworthy of being loved. Therefore, it must be their destiny to be alone forever.
They believe they’ve missed their golden opportunity at finding true love. At their age, all of the loving partners have already been taken. They might think something is inherently is wrong with them that only attracts toxic people who want to date them. They might believe they are a magnet for cheaters and liars. The funny thing is, I hear things like this from clients as young as 25.
Please, do not speak to yourself like this. None of it is true.
This language is harmful to your inherently sacred self and it self-sabotages your ability to be in a loving relationship.
Yes, you might have dated people or spent many years in toxic relationships in the past, but you have the ability to change. You have the capability to grow and learn.
Change your Actions to Change your Dating Experience
Think of dating like fishing. If you change the bait on your fishing pole, you change the type of person you attract. In changing your actions on dates, you will naturally repel toxic partners and attract high quality individuals who are ready for a loving, healthy relationship. Yes, it is that easy and simple.
Some of my clients have attracted the love of their life in less than one month after taking my class. Even during a pandemic, and even over the age of 60.
Never too Old for Love
You are never too old to find love, and no, you are not broken.
Please — do not downplay your past. Everything you go through shapes who you are. Every decision and experience you have gone through is part of your sacred journey in self-development, and just one more reason to love you. There is no reason to be ashamed of who you are or what you have gone through. If you’re reading my blog, it shows you are someone who is interested in self-improvement. Choosing to invest in yourself is the best decision you can and will ever make.
It is a fallacy to believe that just because you weren’t successful in past relationships that you can’t try new things and get different results. Do not self-sabotage your ability to find and develop a relationship with your soulmate. And along the way, please remember to be kind to yourself.
Want to learn more about what really works in terms of both finding love and developing a relationship with your soulmate? Read my course syllabus. I want to help you learn the skills necessary to make your relationship last a lifetime.
I believe in you.
-Emily