I want to be honest with you — I have gone on many BAD dates, and I struggled to build a connection. The whole dating process felt unbelievably frustrating.
Conventional Methods of Dating Didn’t Work
I tried the typical dating advice of letting the guy lead, being mysterious, acting feminine, and not ever mentioning commitment. I felt like I had to pretend to be someone else: matching an impossible standard of beauty and success that miraculously should not intimidate a man at all. Frankly, it didn’t work for me, and I just felt smaller and sadder, date after date.
The Toxic “Beauty” of Bad Dates
Unfortunately, I dated lots of toxic men. I felt used by them and I felt skeptical about each guy. When I went on the date, I wondered, “What’s wrong with this guy? What is his weird flaw?” I could not trust anyone.
I also doubted myself and my ability to fall in love. When I indeed did meet a nice guy, I didn’t feel that spark or instant connection.
I kept going on date after date getting more disappointed and finally thinking that getting married and having a family was not destined for me at all!
It took me a long time to understand my situation. It wasn’t until I started studying the science that I realized there was a much better way to date.
New Ways to Date
When I changed my behaviors on dates, my dating results improved.
Dating took on a whole new meaning. Instead of worrying about how a date went, I viewed dating as an opportunity to practice my new skills.
Every date presented an opportunity to practice a different skill.
When I Met My Husband
I was not perfect at dating skills, yet. I kept practicing and using the same skills to strengthen our love.
Our first couple of years of marriage were very rough – three miscarriages, job loss, financial stress, house purchase, major illness (including several trips to the hospital), difficult pregnancy with several complications, and moving overseas.
Ok, the last one was a lot of fun, but the process for the move, including the paperwork and packing was not. We worked together while relying on the same relationship skills to overcome rough times and life’s challenges.
I am so thankful I discovered these skills because they not only helped me find my husband, they saved my marriage.
Now, I want to help you do the same…
If you take my program, in less than three months, you’ll learn to:
- Understand why you are attracted to certain types of guys, even if they are toxic, and what to do about it.
- Identify if your date is toxic with one simple phrase.
- Take specific action on dates to create a spark with a great man capable of making a loving commitment.
- Change your brain chemistry and body’s physical state scientifically so you are receptive and open for love.
- Meet your needs in a relationship in a loving manner that strengthens the relationship.
- Fight in a way that builds intimacy and understanding instead of squashing it.
- Have passionate sex and intimacy that lasts a lifetime
- Build a relationship that supports each other’s goals and dreams
- Blend your lives together in a way that celebrates the uniqueness of each person
I would love to teach you the relationship skills that changed my life and can change yours. Want to learn more?